drrionelli: DoubleMeat,
I'm somewhat new, here, but I have read your posts from long ago (MUCH prior to making my own).
I wish to join in the others to remark how sorry I am for your collective misfortunes :'(. Truly, you are both, nonetheless blessed with good attitudes.
All will be well for you. Keep a positive mindset. And, if ever you feel down, hey, it's normal, even expected. But do remember that:
From the time you're in the cradle
'Til the time you're in the hearse
Things are never so bad
That they couldn't get worse.
You'll both be fine. Keep us apprised.